
Your Life And Soul
Based in Addlestone, serving Staines-upon-Thames & the surrounding Surrey area
When the pace of a busy Thames-side town leaves little space to think, counselling offers a calm, confidential place to make sense of things.
Too far to travel? Online sessions available.
I'm Lindsay, an integrative counsellor registered with the BACP, and I support people from Staines-upon-Thames and across Surrey. My practice is based in Addlestone, a short drive away, making it accessible whether you're travelling from the town centre, surrounding areas, or prefer the flexibility of online sessions.
Approach
Integrative counselling avoids forcing you into a single therapeutic framework. It begins with your circumstances and uses whichever methods genuinely help, adapting as we go -- the work is built to fit you.
Sessions therefore vary. One week we might look at how early experiences echo in the present; the next might be more hands-on, working through practical strategies for panic, low mood, or conflict at home.
Staines-upon-Thames is a busy, well-connected town where a lot of people balance demanding jobs, commuting and family. Those pressures can quietly stack up until you notice you haven't properly switched off in a long time.
I'm not here to judge how you've been coping or to prescribe answers. I'm here to create a calm, collaborative space where you can be honest and develop ways of managing that genuinely suit your life.
Services
From teenagers grappling with exam stress to younger children struggling with friendship issues or family changes, young people today face pressures previous generations didn't experience. Social media creates constant comparison. Academic expectations start earlier and feel more intense.
I support children and teenagers dealing with anxiety, low confidence, behavioural challenges, anger that feels uncontrollable, difficulties at school (both academic and social), and the impact of family situations like separation or bereavement.
Counselling provides a confidential space that's entirely theirs. For teenagers especially, this independence is crucial. I help them develop emotional literacy -- understanding and articulating their feelings -- which becomes a lifelong skill.
Adulthood comes with responsibilities that seemed abstract when you were younger. Suddenly you're managing a career, relationships, possibly children, ageing parents, financial pressures, and somewhere in all of that you're supposed to maintain your own wellbeing.
I work with adults experiencing anxiety, depression, stress related to work or relationships, anger issues, trauma from past experiences, grief and loss, and that hard-to-articulate feeling that your life isn't quite what you wanted it to be.
Whatever you're facing, counselling offers space to examine it without distraction or judgement. Together, we'll work on understanding what's beneath your struggles, processing difficult emotions, challenging unhelpful thought patterns, and building strategies that help you move forward.
Neurodiversity is a key specialism within my practice. I work with children, teenagers, adults, and the families of neurodivergent individuals -- whether they have a formal diagnosis of ADHD or autism (ASD), are awaiting assessment, or simply feel that neurodiversity might explain some of their experiences.
Parents of neurodivergent children often tell me they feel exhausted and unheard -- by schools, by healthcare systems, sometimes even by their own support networks. I offer a dedicated space for parents to process the challenges they face and develop strategies that actually work in daily life.
For young people, I focus on helping them understand and value their neurodivergent identity, navigate the challenges that can arise at school and in social situations, and build the emotional resilience they need to flourish.
Adults who have received a late diagnosis -- or who are exploring whether ADHD or autism might explain lifelong patterns -- are equally welcome.
There's a cultural narrative that pregnancy and new motherhood should be blissful. The reality is often far more complicated, and women who struggle during this time frequently feel isolated and guilty for not experiencing the joy they're "supposed" to feel.
I have specialist experience supporting women with Hyperemesis Gravidarum (HG) -- severe pregnancy sickness that goes far beyond typical morning sickness. I offer extended 90-minute HG debrief sessions where you can process the full impact of this experience.
I also support women dealing with antenatal anxiety or depression, postnatal depression, birth trauma, difficulties bonding with your baby, and the overwhelming adjustment to motherhood.
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Location
By Car
The drive from Staines to Addlestone takes approximately 20-25 minutes via the A308 or M25. Parking is available near the practice.
By Train
Staines station has services towards London Waterloo and Reading, with onward connections towards Addlestone.
By Bus
Local bus services connect Staines with Egham and Addlestone.
Online Sessions
If getting to face-to-face sessions isn't practical -- perhaps due to childcare, work schedules, or simply preferring to stay in your own space -- I offer online counselling via secure video call. The therapeutic relationship develops just as effectively online, and many clients appreciate the convenience and privacy it offers.
I offer a free initial telephone consultation, giving us both a chance to discuss what's going on and whether counselling feels like the right fit. There's no obligation to proceed after this call. Sessions last 50 minutes (or 90 minutes for HG debriefs) and the atmosphere is relaxed and informal.
Pricing
I believe therapy should be accessible. An initial free telephone consultation is offered so we can discuss your needs before committing.
Adults, teenagers or children
In-depth Hyperemesis Gravidarum debrief
Specialist pre and postnatal counselling
Reduced rates may be available in certain circumstances. Please get in touch to discuss.
Staines-upon-Thames
Staines-upon-Thames is a historic market town on the River Thames, with a town centre built around the Elmsleigh shopping area and the river itself. It has good rail links towards London and Reading, and a mix of long-standing residents and newer commuter families.
There's often an assumption in affluent parts of Surrey that financial comfort means people shouldn't struggle emotionally. But mental health doesn't discriminate based on postcode or bank balance. Anxiety, depression, trauma, and relationship difficulties affect people regardless of their circumstances.
Recognising that you need support and actually seeking it out are two different things. Counselling doesn't require you to be at breaking point -- it's equally valuable for managing stress before it becomes overwhelming.
The riverside path along the Thames near Staines Bridge offers a peaceful spot for reflection after a session. Building time for yourself into your day -- even just 30 minutes -- is part of prioritising your wellbeing.
FAQ
Yes. Staines has fast links towards Waterloo and Reading, so fitting sessions around travel is a common need. I hold some early and evening appointments, and online sessions cut out the journey when time is short.
Not unless you decide to tell them. Sessions are private and confidential. If an Employee Assistance Programme is covering the cost, they will know you have accessed counselling but nothing about its content.
Yes. Anger tends to be the visible layer over something deeper, such as hurt or feeling dismissed. We explore what triggers it and find steadier ways to express and manage it.
Yes. Choosing to try for another baby after HG can bring up grief and real fear. We can process the previous pregnancy together and build a plan of support for whatever you decide.
It's common for teenagers to say more to someone outside the home. I provide a calm, non-judgemental space for them, while keeping age-appropriate lines of communication open with parents.
Yes. Studies show online counselling matches in-person work for many difficulties. The connection develops just the same; you will need somewhere private and a reliable link.
Taking the first step can feel daunting, but it is often the most important one. I offer a free initial telephone consultation where we can have a chat about what you are looking for.
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